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7 Simple Ways To Get Your Budget Back On Track (for good this time!)

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How to fix a broken budget.

Struggling with a broken budget???  We have all been there, and I’ve definitely been there more times then I would like to admit!  It might have happened because we gave into spending temptations to many times, or perhaps we let lifestyle creep sneak in.  Or, there could have been a lot of unexpected expenses arise.  There are so many reasons why we go over budget, it happens to everyone!  Going over budget is normal, not great, but normal….but only if it happens occasionally.  If you are looking for ways to fix a broken budget, I’ve got you covered!  Keep reading for 7 simple ways to get your budget back on track (for good this time!).

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How To Get Your Budget Back On Track

It is possible to fix a broken budget!  Follow the steps below to get your budget back on track once and for all!

1.  Stop Unnecessary Spending

The first step you need to take to get your budget back on track is to put a pause on all unnecessary spending.  This doesn’t mean you cant pay your bills or buy food.  It means that you will only spend money on things that are necessary for living.  But, things like entertainment. going out to eat, home decor, etc. should be completely stopped.

There are so many ways to enjoy life, without having to spend money.  Try a few new easy recipes at home, enjoy some at home date nights, and be creative about finding things for free!

2.  Track Your Spending

If you aren’t already tracking your spending, now is the time to start!  Tracking your spending is one of the most important (but easily skipped) steps to fixing a broken budget.  Writing down every purchase that you make will hold you accountable to your purchases, making it much less likely for you to impulse shop.  

I recommend taking time every single day to write down what you bought that day.  Then compare your purchases to your budget to make sure you are staying within your goals.

3.  Use Cash Envelopes

Anything thing that really helps me fix a broken budget is to start using cash envelopes.  The cash envelope system is really fairly easy to use!

First, look through your budget to determine the amount of cash you have left to spend for the rest of the month.

Next, you will need to go to the bank and take out that exact amount of cash out of the bank.  Divide the cash into different envelope categories.  Once your envelope is empty, you literally can not buy anything else (no cheating!).  I explain more about how cash envelopes here.

And, yes, you CAN use cash envelopes for online purchases!  I explain exactly how to do so in the video below!

 

4.  Give Yourself A Reward

I’ll let you in on a little secret about me…..I love to reward myself!  It motivates me to work hard and reach my goal.  Whenever I start struggling with my budget, I set up a reward system to help me stay focused on my money goals.

Choose your reward by thinking of something fun, but frugal, that you would enjoy getting.  I love to reward myself with a treat from my favorite pastry shop or by buying myself a new small piece of jewelry.

Set up your reward system in a way that will help you get back on track with your budget.  For example, if you go 10 days without splurging on any unnecessary spending, then you can treat yourself to your small reward.

5.  Return Recent Purchases You Don’t Need

Do you have any recent purchases that you regret buying?  Or perhaps that you don’t regret, but know deep down it wasn’t the best decision to buy?  Return these items to the store ASAP!  This is the quickest and easiest way to fix a broken budget caused by impulse spending.

6.  Sell Clutter In Your Home

Another option for getting more money back in your pocket is to sell clutter around your house that you don’t need or use!  My rule of thumb is that if I haven’t touched it for a few months, it needs to go!

Use the money you earn from selling your clutter to get your budget back on track, don’t spend it on something frivolous, put it to use in a budget category that needs it.

7.  Use An Accountability Partner

One of the best ways to get back on track with your budget is to find an accountability partner to help you reach your goals.  An accountability partner could be your spouse, a friend or everything in between.  Ask the person you choose if they will help hold you accountable to your money goals.  Share with them your desire to fix your budget and what you need to do to get there.

As you go about your day to day routine, make sure to check in with your accountability partner regularly.  Make sure to always call this person to help you when you get the urge to spend, they can talk you through your spending choices to help you make the one that will help your budget best!

8.  Focus On Your Goals

The most important things to remember is to stay focused on your goals.  Set a goal of where you want your budget to be, write it down and then hang it up somewhere so that you can see it regularly.  A bathroom mirror or phone lock screen are great options for this!

When you stay focused on your BIG goals, it’s easier to say “no” to the temptations that come along.

You Got This!

Please don’t beat yourself up for getting off of your budget.  Like I mentioned earlier, it DOES happen, and there IS hope for fixing it.  The fact that you are reading this article shows me that you want to stick to your budget and make it work.  

I know that through a little bit of work, some sacrifice and following these steps you can fix your broken budget!

 

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Best Side Hustles For Stay At Home Moms

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How to earn money from home!

I have been so lucky to have been able to spend the past 16 years at home with my kids.  Being a stay at home mom is a job I always dreamed of, and I am definitely living my dream!  But, as my kids have grown older and I have had more free time, I have been looking for ways to earn a little extra income, without having to give up my time with my kids.  If you are in a similar situation at me, wanting to stay home with your kids, but are also wondering how to earn money from home, this article is for you!  I brainstormed a list of the best side hustles for stay at home moms, and I hope they help!

The best thing about this list is that these jobs are for anyone who wants to work part time out of their home.  Many of these can be done in the evenings or on weekends while you are still working a full time job.

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1.  Clean Businesses or Homes

A great way to make money as a stay at home mom is to hire yourself out to clean local businesses or homes.  Many businesses will need to be cleaned after office hours, which is perfect for stay at home moms because this mean you might be able to leave your kids at home with your husband once he gets home from work while you go clean.  This is also a good option for those needing to earn money after their day job is done.

You can easily market yourself on Facebook Marketplace, just post in a local group that you are available to clean and when.  There are also a few cleaning companies you could call and ask if they are needing another cleaner.

This is actually my side hustle.  I have been cleaning two AirBnb Rentals for the past year and actually really enjoy it!

I stick my earbuds in, listen to my favorite podcasts or a new book and clean away.  It’s good money and fairly easy work.  I’ve also been given permission to bring my kids with me, so I give them little jobs to help with and pay them for their help!  It’s been a great experience for all of us!

2.  Ebay Reseller

Do you like to thrift shop???  Why not turn that hobby into a part time job?  Look for brand name items at local thrift stores or garage sales and resell them on ebay.

Before buying anything remember to do a quick check on eBay to see how much money similar items are selling for, this should give you an idea of what is a good buy or not.

I’ve sold items here and there on eBay, but never consistently.  If you are interested in learning more, I found a fantastic article that can help get you started!

3.  AirBnb Hosting

I first learned about AirBnb Hosting from the lovely Jamie at Fly By The Seat of Our Pants.  Her family travels constantly, and they have learned to rent out their home using AirBnb while they are on vacation!  This has given them the ability to EARN money while they are on vacation!  I mean seriously, can it get any better than that????

I’ll be honest, when I first heard Jamie talk about letting strangers come stay at their house while they go on vacation, I was not on board.  But, the more I have learned from her, the more that I can see it is in fact a GREAT way to earn an extra income.  If you’re like me and have questions about how she makes it all work, check out her post Secrets of an AirBnb Host-FAQ of Renting our Home. She explains it all so well!

 

4.  VIP Kid

VIP Kid is currently one of the most popular work from home jobs, and for good reason!  The company is super easy to work with and hires most of their applicants!

This job sounds so fun because you get to sit at your computer while teaching English to kids in China!  If you are a teacher at heart, this is the job for you.

The best part is that all of the work is already done for you!  The lesson plans are all prepared, your job is just to teach it!

They do require you have some experience working with kids and a bachelors degree.  But!  It doesn’t matter what your degree is in!  (whoo!)

5.  Babysit Kids in Your Home

If you are already at home taking care of your own kids, why not offer to babysit a few other kids.  This is an easy way to earn an extra income, while doing what you would be doing anyways!

If a full time daycare feels like to much, consider just watching one child a couple of times a week.  I constantly see posts on Facebook Marketplace of parents wanting to find a part time sitter for their child.  Check there first!

6.  Blogging

Hello blogging! I fell in love with blogging last year when I decided, completely on a whim, to start this little blog.  I’ve always had a love of writing and being able to do that while being a full time stay at home mom felt like the perfect fit.

I’ve learned a lot over the past year and made a lot of mistakes at the same time.  But, you know what.  All of the ups and downs have been so worth it!  I love getting to do what I love from the comfort of my home.

Feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions about getting started blogging!  It’s a long road, made much easier with a support system.

7.  Open an Etsy Shop

Do you love to craft or create?  Consider opening an Etsy shop to sell your handmade items.  We all have the ability to create something to share with the world.

Maybe your shop would be crafts, or jewelry.  It might even be graphic design or printables….the sky is the limit!  Spend a few minutes searching through Etsy to get some ideas for your own shop.

8.  Teach a Service

Do you have a skill you could teach to others?  I bet you do!

A few years ago I was a piano teacher (until I retired for personal reasons).  I loved having the ability to pick my own schedule and teach right out of my home.

What skills could you teach to others?  Maybe you could teach music, sewing, gardening, art, or cooking.

It would be fun to create a summer camp and focus on teaching for a few weeks straight if you don’t want to commit to something long term.

You could even teach through Zoom, Skype, etc.

9.  Photography

Do you like to take pictures?  Why don’t you turn it into a business!  All of the photographers I use are stay at home moms, and they are fantastic!

This side hustle will require some upfront costs as you invest in a camera and possibly some equipment.  But, it might be worth it if this is something you feel passionate about.

Do some research online and learn about what it takes to start a photography business to help you decide if this is the right fit for you or not.

10.  Refurbish Old Furniture

Refurbishing old furniture might feel a little daunting at first, but once you get going with it it’s actually really not that hard!!

Search thrift stores, estate sales and garage sales for old furniture and when you find a cheap price on a nice piece, snatch it up.

The trick is to look for the POTENTIAL!  Try to see beyond the yellow oak stain, the scratches and nicks and imagine the beauty the furniture could be.  Be sure to BARTER if you’re at a garage sale (always).

You can find hundreds of YouTube video tutorials all about how to refurbish old furniture!

Once you’re done fixing it up, list the item for sale, Facebook Marketplace works great, and enjoy the profit you’ll make!

I actually LOVE buying from people who have fixed up old furniture.  I love the look of it, but don’t like putting in the work.  So, you never know….I just might be your first customer!  😉

11.  Become a Virtual Assistant

Becoming a virtual assistant is easy!  All you need is motivation and a computer!  Virtual assistants work from home while assisting companies with social media, blogging, editing, e-mailing and more.

This job is wide open to whatever the company needs from you to keep their business thriving.  I have heard SO many good things about being a virtual assistant, and have considered it myself!

If you are interested in becoming a virtual assistant, I recommend joining a few Virtual Assistant Facebook groups.  These will be a great resource for you to ask questions and network.

12.  Tutoring

There have been times (actually many, many times) when I would be willing to PAY someone to help my daughter with her math homework.  I just don’t do math!

If I knew of a stay at home mom who would be willing to tutor my daughter in this subject, that is a fee I would be willing to pay!  If you enjoy working with others and feel confident in a specific subject, this is a great way to earn extra money from home.

Consider signing up through a tutoring company, or hire yourself out online.  This is a great job for setting your own hours!

In Conclusion

I truly believe that with the technology we have there are so many side hustles for stay at home moms, or anyone wanting to earn an extra income from home.  Do some research, find the right fit for you and your personality, and then get started making money!

Let me know if you have any questions, I am here to help!

 

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Tips For Budgeting As A Couple

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How to get your spouse to budget when they don’t want to.

Do you struggle budgeting as a couple?  I can so relate!  I have been there!

My husband and I are constantly working on getting on the same page with a budget.

It all started about 10 years ago when I read a book that changed my life, Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover book and I knew it was time to start looking at our finances differently.  I decided right then and there that my husband and I would make a budget, and stick to it faithfully.

Later that night I happily told my husband the good news, “We are going to start budgeting and will be able to save so much money!” I announced.

I looked at his face, fully expecting to see the same enthusiasm that I felt……but instead of joy, I saw annoyance.

“Why do we need to budget?  We spend less than I make every month” he asked me.

I spent a few minutes explaining to him that a budget could help us save for our future, eliminate some unnecessary spending, and set us up for financial success, fully expecting him to be just as excited about it as I was.

But, he just didn’t have the same vision as I had.  Which, in hindsight is understandable.  I had accepted him to jump on board with my new found financial knowledge, simply because I was telling him that it was a good idea.  I wanted him to feel like I felt, without ever giving him the opportunity to form his own views.

Here’s the thing about relationships:  you can not force your spouse to have your same views.  That’s not how a marriage works.  A marriage is a partnership between two separate people.  Each of the partners will, should, and have their own opinions, thoughts, goals, and ideas.  I’m going to say it again, you can not force your spouse to be something they aren’t.

It took me a few months of talking (and disagreeing) to my husband about budgeting before I finally asked, “Can we just try it?  Let’s just try it for one month and see how it goes.  I think it could really help us!”

Fortunately, he agreed.  We sat together one evening and set up a budget.  There were frustrations, we have had plenty of mishaps, and we have had to start and restart time and time again.  But.  A decade later and we still budget.  In fact, my husband is the one that 99% of the time reminds me it’s time to discuss the budget.

So what changed?  I believe there were two main points that changed my husbands mind about the whole budget thing.

  1.  He saw that a budget did in fact make a difference.  My husband needed to decide for himself if he felt that a budget was worthwhile.  Once he saw how much more money we did actually save on a budget, he embraced the vision.
  2. It became a habit.  He really didn’t like the idea of having “one more thing” on his to do list.  But, after a few months it has become a habit and doesn’t feel like an extra chore, it’s just what we do.

Now, I understand that not all situations go like mine.  Some spouses are more willing and others are much less willing to budget together.  Here are a few tips to help you when your spouse just doesn’t want to budget.

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Tips For Budgeting As A Couple

1.  Communicate

Communication is so important in a marriage, and finances is no different.  Communicate with your spouse why you want to budget and your goals and concerns for your future.  Explain to him why this is important to you, and why it is important to you to do together.

In return, listen.  Listen to your spouses concerns.  Ask him why he doesn’t want to budget, ask him how you can help make it easier for them, and genuinely listen and care about his responses.

2.  Make it Fun

Try to make budgeting fun (yes!  budgeting can be fun…..ish!).  Instead of saying something like, “Let’s have a budget meeting.” (I mean, that prob sounds fairly boring to anyone, right!?), invite your spouse to something fun, plus a budget meeting!

You could go on a walk, have a picnic, or bring their favorite foods to enjoy while discussing the budget.  Make the budget meetings a little less boring and try to make it a fun experience for everyone involved.

2.  No blaming

When it comes to the budget you need to work as a team.  Avoid putting blame on your spouse.  Instead of, “You spent way to much this month!” say phrases like, “We spent to much this month.”  Yes!  Even if it truly might be your spouse overspending, work as a team and never ever blame.  The only thing blaming will bring is contention, and contention won’t make a budget.

3.  Be Willing to Compromise

Compromise is a must when budgeting as a couple.  Maybe you are super frugal and your spouse isn’t, this is totally normal!

Find a way to meet in the middle.  Perhaps your spouse wants to get a hair cut and color every month, but you feel that makes the budget to tight.  Ask if they would be willing to get a cut and color every 6-8 weeks instead.  Give your spouse freedom in their budget, while also making sure the budget is kept.

4.  Personal Spending Money

Include personal spending money for both you and your spouse.  This spending money gives both of you the freedom to spend how you want, when you want, with completely no guilt or judgement attached to it.

The amount received for personal spending will vary based on your income and expenses.  However, you and your spouse should both receive the exact same amount.

I love having this guilt free spending money!  

5.  Be the Example

Maybe your spouse just doesn’t get it, and that’s OK!  The whole idea of budgeting might be a little daunting or strange to them, which is exactly how my husband was.  Be an example of living by a successful budget so they can learn from you.

Excitedly show your partner how much money you saved by doing “xyz” that month.  Your positive attitude just might rub off and they will want to join in on your success.

6.  Celebrate the Wins

Positive reinforcement goes a long ways in marriage, and life in general.  When your spouse sticks to the budget, celebrate.  Buy them their favorite treat, genuinely praise them, and let them know how proud you are of them.

Everyone likes to feel appreciated and having mini celebrations can help budgeting feel much more bearable.

7.  Make a Plan Together

Together is the key word in this.  Sit down and discuss your goals for the future and present.  Plan how you can reach these goals and make a plan going forward.  Allow your spouse to give their opinions about the way the plan and budget will look.  It might not be exactly how you think it should be, but remember compromise matters.

When Nothing Works

If you have tried everything you can to get your spouse to budget and it’s just not working, you are not alone.  Financial disagreements are common among all couples.

Focus on the things that you can control within your budget.  Spend wisely.  Budget as best as you can by yourself and do what you can to keep the finances in order.  Alone is never fun, but it can be done.  Lean on support groups through facebook or family and friends to help give you the support you need.

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Money Advice For Your 20s

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Finance tips for your 20s.

The twenties were some of the best years of my life.  It’s a wonderful time when the entire future lays ahead of you and you feel ready to conquer the world.  This is also a time when a lot of personal growth and learning occurs.  You make big decisions that have big consequences on your future.  One of the most important of those decisions how to manage your money.  Oh how I remember being young (and dare I say naive….).  I thought life would go exactly as planned and money would never be an issue…boy was I wrong!  I so wish someone, anyone, had sat me down and taught me more about finances.  Sure, I understood that I should spend less than I made and that you had to work for money….but there were some important things I was very ignorant of.   So today I am going to share those lessons with you.  Here is some money advice for your 20s.

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Money Tips You Should Know In Your Twenties

Here is a few pieces of money advice for your 20s.  I hope it helps prevent you from making the same mistakes I did!

1.  Start Saving For Retirement ASAP

One of the most important things you should know about money in your 20s is to start saving for retirement asap!

I know in these early adult years retirement feels forever away.

Guess what?  It’s not.  The retirement years are going to come quicker than you think.

The day you start earning money is the day you should start investing into a retirement savings account, such as a 401k or IRA.  Time is your friend when it comes to investing and compound interest (trust me, you want compound interest!).  So, start early!

2.  Budgets Are For Everybody

For about half of my twenties I didn’t think I needed a budget.  I never spent more than we earned, so I felt confident in my money management skills.

After reading Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover my views on money shifted drastically.  I realized that a budget is for EVERYBODY, and we could have more money if we started budgeting.

The next day my husband and I sat down and made our first budget.  We weren’t pros at the beginning….as a matter of fact we failed many times.  But through practice and patience we mastered budgeting and our finances improved.

Everyone should be budgeting, it doesn’t matter how much money you make or save.  A budget will help you help you save even more and help you control your spending.

3.  You Need An Emergency Fund (and probably a bigger one than you think)

In your twenties it’s easy to feel as if all the bad things only happen to other people….never to you.

I’m here to tell you, that they do and will happen to you too, unfortunately.

I don’t know what will occur in your future, but I do know that you need an emergency fund to cover any expenses or circumstances that might come your way.

Try to save a minimum of 6 months living expenses in your emergency fund.  This will give you enough to cover most emergencies without feeling stressed about the distant future.

4.  Debt Is Dumb

You will run across many advertisements trying to convince you to sign up for this credit card or buy that piece of furniture on credit.  You will hear phrases like, “0% down” or “no payments for one year!”  Many people will tell you it’s normal to pay off debt.  It becomes confusing as you try to weed through what’s correct and what’s not.

I’m here to tell you that debt is just dumb.  Period.  It will only bring you financial stress in your future. 

Stay out of debt!  Remember, if you save up and pay cash for something, rather than buying it on credit, you will end up spending less in the long run!  No debt=no interest!

The only thing I recommend anybody going into debt for is to buy a house.

5.  Your Tax Refund Is Not Free Money

I remember the time my husband and I got our first tax refund back in the mail.  It felt like free money just being handed to us.  I basically thought it was the best thing ever and immediately started planning all the fun ways to spend this new found money.

What I WISH someone had told me was that a tax refund is NOT free money.

In fact it is money that you worked hard for and EARNED……and then loaned to the government interest free.

If you do receive a tax return remember that this is not free money, it’s money that you earned and should be used wisely.  I suggest using it to pay off debt, grow your emergency fund, or to help you save for a big upcoming purchase.

6.  You Don’t Need a Fancy Car

In my twenties I truly thought I needed a brand new car to “officially” become an adult (insert eye roll here).

Oh, how wrong I was!

I’m here to tell you that you do not need a fancy car.  If you want one, and can pay cash for it, go for it, but it is so not necessary.  Cars are known for losing their value quickly.  In fact, cars will lose around 15% of their value EACH year, that’s a lot of wasted cash.

Look for a vehicle that will be safe, reliable and fuel efficient.  Look for one that will be able to grow with you as your life changes throughout the years.  Most importantly, look for one that you can afford.

7.  Bills Are Negotiable

Another piece of money advice for your 20s is that your bills are negotiable!  Don’t ever be afraid of asking for a better rate or cheaper amount.  The trick is speaking up, knowing your facts, and being polite.

You will find big savings each month if you begin negotiating your bills.

8.  Just Because You Can Afford It Doesn’t Mean You Need to Buy It

This is an important one so listen up.

Just because you have the cash to buy something right now…doesn’t mean that you need to buy it right now.

Don’t give in to your impulses and the flashy sales that will come your way.  You worked hard for your money and shouldn’t blow it on items you won’t value in the long run.

When choosing whether to buy something or not ask yourself these simple questions:

“Do I need this?”

“Did I budget for this?”

“Will I use this for many years?”

If you can answer yes to all three of these questions, than it is a good buy.  If you answer no to any of them, I would wait a few days before making the purchase.  This gives you the time to make an informed decision, rather than buying on impulse.

9.  Credit Cards Are Great…..If You Use Them Correctly

I am a HUGE fan of credit cards in my own life.  I use them regularly and love the cash back that I can earn from them.  Each of my credit cards are paid off in full every month and I always spend within my budget.

When I was in my twenties, I had heard many people say that credit cards were bad….so I didn’t use them.  Later down the road, as I learned and studied more I realized I was missing out on a lot of rewards.  

I now use credit cards regularly and would never go back.  If you are wise with your money I encourage you to look into a few reward credit cards.  We personally use a Discover Card and love the cashback earned each month.

HOWEVER!  There is a big but here!

If you struggle with constant over spending, are often over budget, and have a history of credit card debt, I would advise you not to open a credit card.  In this instance the rewards are just not worth the risk of overspending.

In Conclusion

The twenties were one of my favorite times of my life.  It was when I truly grew and found myself.  Enjoy this time while you are in it, but never forget that the future isn’t as far away as it might feel, and finances matter.  I hope this money advice for your 20s was helpful for you!

 

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How To Find Extra Money In Your Budget

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What you can do to have more money each month.

How would you feel if I told you that it’s possible for you to have an extra $300 each month?  It will not require getting a new job, getting a raise, starting a side hustle, or selling anything.  Sounds pretty good, right???  However, it might require a little bit of time and sacrifice.  Would you want to know more details?  Well, I’m going to give them to you!  Today I am sharing exactly how to find extra money in your budget with these two strategies.

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1.  Analyze Your Fixed Expenses

The first strategy to having more money in the budget each month is to analyze your fixed expenses.  Your fixed expenses are the item in your budget that you have to spend money on each month and usually stay the same.  Common fixed expenses are rent, mortgage, utilities, etc.

I encourage you to look over your fixed expenses FIRST, because these are often the expenses most people think can’t change.  But, they can!

Make a list of each of the fixed expenses you pay each month.  Once you have made your list I want you to put a star next to the items you believe you can lower.

Here are a few examples of fixed expenses that you might be spending to much money on:

Insurance:  The great thing about insurance (and I’m talking ALL insurance, home insurance, car insurance, life insurance, etc.) is that you can shop around to many different providers and agents.  First, call your current insurance agent and explain to them that you are wanting to find a way to lower the cost.  Ask politely if there is anything they can do to decrease the amount you are currently paying. 

Next, call a few different insurance providers and ask them for a quote.  After you have a few different insurance quotes you can then make the decision of whether you would like to switch to a new provider, or stay where you are.  Either way, the amount you are paying should be decreasing.  If your current agent wasn’t willing to lower the rate, it might be a good time to switch to someone new.  In many cases you might find the best deals by having your car insurance with one company and life insurance with another.

 Cell Phone:  A monthly cell phone bill can get expensive fast, fortunately there are cheaper options out there.  Look into a few alternative cell phone companies, such as Tello Mobile or Red Pocket Mobile.  We have used both of these and were so impressed with the high quality service and super cheap rates.

Cable TV:  Still paying for cable?  That’s OK, you’re not alone.  But, this is one of the easiest fixed expense to cut.  Cancel your cable and replace it with one, maybe two, streaming services.  Look into Prime Video, Netflix, Hulu, YouTube TV, Disney+,  Paramount+, etc. until you find the right fit for you.

Internet:  If you haven’t negotiated the price of your internet yet, I suggest you do so now.   If you have been a loyal internet customer, they will usually work with you in lowering the price.  All you have to do is ask!

Utilities:  Try to come up with a few strategies to decrease your utilities costs.  This might include fixing seals on doors and windows, turn your thermostat up or down a few degrees (depending on the season), taking shorter showers, etc. 

If you are needing some more tips be sure to check out my two articles; How To Lower Utility Bills in Winter and How To Lower Utility Bills in Summer.

Monthly Subscriptions:  What are the subscriptions you are paying for each month?  Your subscriptions might include your TV streaming subscriptions, magazines, beauty boxes, gym membership, music subscriptions, phone apps, meal plans, etc.

Choose one, two, or maybe even all of those subscriptions to remove from your budget.

One thing that has helped me with subscriptions is to put them on a rotation.  For example, if I currently have a Netflix, Disney+, FabFitFun, and IPSY subscription, I will choose 2 of them to keep and cancel the rest. 

After a few months of using the subscriptions I kept I will then cancel those and renew 2 more.  I keep rotating my favorite subscriptions so that I can enjoy all of them throughout the year, but only paying for a few of them at a time.

Here is a quick example of what a rotation schedule might look like:

January-June:  Pay for FabFitFun and Netflix.

July-December:  Pay for IPSY and Disney+.

 

 

2.  Analyze Your Variable Expenses

The next step to finding extra money in your budget is to reduce your fun spending.  After you have examined your fixed expenses, it’s time to look at your variable expenses.

Variable expenses are the expenses in your budget that change month to month. 

Take out your list you made of your Fixed Expenses.  Now, I want you to add all of your Discretionary Spending categories to the list.  Look at each of the things that you spend your money on closely.  Put a star next to the items you think you can spend less on.

For example, your updated list might look like this:

Fixed Expenses

  • Rent
  • Insurance*
  • Car Payment
  • Cell Phone*
  • Cable TV*
  • Electricity*
  • Water*

Variable Expenses

  • Groceries*
  • Clothing*
  • Entertainment*
  • Gas
  • Eating Out*
  • Travel*

In many instances variable expenses are HARD to cut from the budget, because it is usually the spending that makes life a little more enjoyable.  I’m hoping to show you a few not so difficult tips for decreasing your fun spending.

Eating Out:  How often do you go out to eat for lunch or dinner.  Are you constantly stopping and buying a Starbucks or other treat on your way to work? 

I challenge you to cut the number of times you eat out a month in half.

So, if a normal week for you includes 5 Starbucks, 3 fast food lunches, and going out to dinner twice, cut that in half to:  2 Starbucks, 1 fast food lunch, and out to dinner once in a week.  You can do it!!!!

Groceries:  I know that we all have to eat, and groceries are a part of life.  But, are there some things you can do to lower the amount of money you spend on groceries each month?  I bet you can!

Take a look at my article, 10 Quick Ways To Lower Your Grocery Bill, to find a few tips for spending less.  Choose one (or all) of the tips in the article to start implementing into your grocery routine.

Clothing:  Another common variable expenses is clothing.  If you don’t need any clothes at this time, avoid going to any clothing stores or browsing online clothing stores. 

However, if you are needing some new clothing items, shop at discount stores, such as Ross or thrift stores, like ThredUp for the clothes that you need.  You can find good quality clothing, for a fraction of the price, if you are willing to change where you shop.

Entertainment:  If you are looking for how to find extra money in your budget, entertainment is usually a good place to look.  There are SO many cheap ways to entertain yourself and still have fun.

Rent a movie instead of going to one.  Check out books from the library instead of buying them.  Invite friends over for a pot luck dinner instead of going out to eat.

When choosing cheaper forms of entertainment, be willing to try new things and get creative.  You just might find a few new favorite hobbies!

Travel:  Do you love to travel?  I do too!  As a matter of fact I love it so much that we consistently contribute money each paycheck into our travel sinking fund.

If I was needing extra money though, travel is something that can be made cheaper.  For example, plan a staycation instead of going somewhere.  Look for fun (cheap) activities you can do around your hometown so that you don’t have to pay for flights or hotel accommodations.

We love contributing to our Travel Sinking Fund, but if something came up where we needed more money in our budget, this is one of the first things we would cut.

 

Finding Extra Money In Your Budget

Now that you have examined your budget closely, and made a list of a few expenses you can decrease, it’s time to put it into action.  Look at the items you have placed a star beside on your list.  Using the tips I shared above, choose a few of your starred expenses to spend less on this week.

Keep implementing your plan even on the weeks it feels hard.  It won’t always be easy to change your spending habits, you will get spending urges!  Fortunatly, spending urges pass if we wait, so be willing to wait out those urge and remember your big money goals.

Now that you are spending less in both your variable and fixed expenses, you should have some extra wiggle room in your budget.  Make sure to use that money we found wisely, hopefully to pay off debt, save for your future, or another important expense.

You got this!  I believe in you!

 

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How to Start Budgeting for Beginners

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Your Budgeting Questions Answered!

I receive so many messages on a daily basis from people wanting to learn how to start budgeting, but they don’t know how to take that first step.  It is always so amazing to me when I see others who want to improve their life and financial situation.  This isn’t an easy thing!  It can be scary trying to make such a big change into the unknown.  There can be a lot of questions when you first start budgeting and I want to answer some of those for you. 

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How do I start budgeting?

The very most asked question I receive on Instagram is from people wanting to know how to start budgeting.  I think one of the hardest parts of most new habits is starting.  It is always hard to take that first big, sometimes scary, step in a new direction.  I have three suggestions to help you get on the right track for a successful budget.

1.  Make A Zero Based Budget

I recommend making a Zero Based Budget.  This is a budget where your expenses and income will be the same, in short…..you give every dollar a job to do within the budget.  This does not mean you SPEND every dollar, it means that it has a purpose and place within your budget.

If you are new to budgeting, it might take you a while to figure out just how much money to budget for each category.  This is normal!  A budget is fluid, meaning it is always changing. 

I had about a year of FAILED budgets (no lie) before I finally learned what works for me and my family.

A great resource to get started is my Free Budget Worksheet.  Grab it by signing up below!

 

 

2.  Track All Expenses

Once you make your Zero Based Budget I recommend tracking all of your expenses throughout the month.  Yes, this means writing down every.single.thing you spend.  Even that $1 pack of gum.  Write it down and track it!

Tracking your expenses keeps your budget accurate, and gives you a great window into your spending habits.  By tracking your spending habits, you will be able to see what areas you are over spending in and areas you could cut back.  This is crucial knowledge!

3.  Check Out Dave Ramsey

I highly recommend everyone new to budgeting, frugal living, or paying off debt read the book, The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey.  This book changed my life and was the one thing that put me on my path to frugal living and mindful spending.

Check it out from your library, borrow it from a friend, or order it from Amazon.  No matter how you get it, just read it.  Dave Ramsey uses easy to understand terms as he explains exactly how to fix your financial situation.

 

What is the best way to keep track of day to day spending?

Ok.  So now that we understand it’s important to track spending, let’s talk about exactly how to do that!

Truth is, there are many different ways to track spending.  There is no right or wrong way to track spending, the most important thing is that you stay consistent.  Here are a few options to try:

1.  Excel Spreadsheet

When we first started budgeting my husband put in hours (and hours and hours) making us an excel spreadsheet budget.  It was full of details and catered to our spending and needs.  

We loved this method.  It was free and easy to customize and liked that we could make it exactly how we needed it.  However, it was very time consuming to make and upkeep.

2.  Budgeting App or Software

After using the excel spreadsheet for a few years we moved on to a computer budgeting program.  It was seriously the best decision ever.

We have been using the You Need a Budget budgeting app for about 10 years now and have never looked back.  It is so user friendly and very affordable!  I love that you can download the app onto your phone and update it as you spend.

A few other great apps available are Every Dollar, Mint, and Pocket Guard.

3.  Paper and Pen

There is nothing wrong with tracking expenses with old fashioned paper and pen.  As a matter of fact, I know many who prefer budgeting this way.

When tracking spending it is important to stay consistent.  Pick a day of the week, schedule a time, and develop a routine for tracking your spending.

 

How do you use cash envelopes?

Cash envelopes are a great way to limit your spending and stick to your budget.  I always recommend them to anyone who consistently is going over budget.  Plus they are so easy to use!

Just make your budget, and then get out enough envelopes for your spending categories.  Label each envelope, “Clothing”, “Groceries”, etc.  Stuff the envelope with enough cash to cover your budgeted amount.

As you go throughout the month, use the cash envelope to purchase items in each category.  Once the cash is gone, your spending for the month is done!  

 

How do you make a grocery budget?

First, I want to remind you that grocery budgets will vary greatly!  There is no secret amount or right/wrong way to budget for groceries.  Food prices vary in different parts of the world, and different families have different needs/diets.

It will take some trial and error to find the right grocery budget for you.  A good rule of thumb is $120/person/month.  So, a family of four would have a budget of $450/month.  However, if you find yourself needing more in your budget that’s OK.  Make your budget work for YOU!

 

How do you save money on groceries?

Groceries are one of the biggest expenses for most budgets.  But!  I have learned a few ways to ease this burden!

1.  Meal Plan

The number one way I have found to keep those costs low is to meal plan.  Plan out every meal you want to eat for the week.  As you meal plan, write out your grocery list, and stick to this list while you shop.  Having a plan reduces the temptation to impulse shop and eat out.

2.  Walmart Grocery Pickup

Another fantastic way to stick to your grocery budget is to use Walmart Grocery Pickup.  It is completely FREE and you get to shop at home (in your PJs!) and then pick your groceries up at the store.  You don’t even have to get out of your car!!

The thing about Walmart Grocery Pickup is that you are able to watch your cart total on the app as you shop.  If you find you are spending more than your budgeted amount, just delete a few items from the cart!  So easy!  So helpful!

 

What are the easiest cashback apps for frugal beginners?

I’m always getting asked about the best cash back apps.  And, I love answering this question because cash back apps are one of my favorite things ever!!  I mean you get paid to buy things you would be buying anyways!  It just doesn’t get much better than that!

Here are a few of my favorite:

1.  Ibotta

Ibotta is the cashback app I have been using the longest.  It’s easy, straightforward and always has a few rebates available!  Sign up using this link for up to a $20 sign up bonus!  Whoo!

2.  Fetch Rewards

The easiest cashback app ever is Fetch Rewards.  Fetch Rewards takes less than a minute to use, and rewards you with points for every receipt.  These points can be redeemed for gift cards to your favorite places (Target and Amazon!!).  Try it for yourself here and use code FETCH2K to get 2,000 bonus points!

3.  Rakuten

Another very easy app to use is Rakuten.  Rakuten gives you cashback when you shop online at participating retailers.  I never buy anything online without first checking the Rakuten website!  Sign up today and get $10 bonus when you spend your first $25!

I share more details about cashback apps here!

 

What should my budget look like?  What is normal for our family?

When you are learning how to budget it’s important to remember that no two budgets look the same, and that’s how it’s suppose to be.

My normal will be different than your normal.  What I spend on groceries, will be different from what you will spend on groceries, etc.  This is one of my favorite parts of a budget.  You can customize it and find something that works for you personally!

With that said, I do recommend following Dave Ramseys budget percentages.  These aren’t the law, but I do like that it gives me a basic number to shoot for.

 

 

What can you do when you cut back, budget and still don’t have enough money?

I loved this question; because it is so relatable and a very real situation for many of us.

My first piece of advice is to keep your head up!  You are NOT alone!  There are so many dealing with similar struggles.  I strongly believe that together, we CAN help each other reach our financial goals.  Reach out to facebook groups and instagram accounts that discuss this issue.  Surrounding yourself with others in this situation should give you the strength, support and ideas to help get you through it.

When you have done EVERYTHING you can think of and the money is just still NOT adding up, that means it’s time to take more extreme actions.  Here are a few ideas to take when you need to be “gazelle intense.”

 1.  Sell items in your home

Look around your house for items you don’t use very often.  Sell these to earn a little extra money.  My goal is to always earn about $50 each month just by selling my clutter.  It’s possible!

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2.  Start a side hustle

Try to find another way to bring in extra money.  A side hustle is a job you can do during your free time.  Here are a few side hustle ideas you can do at home.

3.  Make some sacrifices

Look through your budget one more time and find a few things you could cut out to have more money.  Could you stop going out to eat, or maybe you could switch cell companies to lower your phone plan, could you cancel your TV subscriptions or maybe not going to the movie theater?

I know that each of these can and will take a huge sacrifice, but remind yourself that the sacrifice is temporary.

4.  Earn more money

Consider asking for a raise from your current employer.  If you have been working at the same location for over a year, many employers will consider giving you a raise.  It never EVER hurts to ask!  Just ask politely and confidently.

If a raise won’t happen you might want to make a job change.  Begin searching around for a job that will pay better and still make you happy.

5.  Downgrade

If you are in desperate need of more money and none of the other suggestions will work for you, you might want to look into downgrading in a few areas of your life.  This might mean trading in your car for a cheaper model or moving into a more affordable home.

I understand it is NOT easy when the money just ISN’T there.  ESPECIALLY when you feel as if you have sacrificed again, and again and again.  I get it, I have been there!  Keep your head up.  Keep trying.  I believe in you!

In Conclusion

I hope this article answered all of your questions about budgeting and gave you the tools you need to know how to start budgeting!  Feel free to reach out if you have any other questions.  I’m always happy to help!

Remember that learning to budget takes time, and that’s OK!  Don’t give up if you fail the first few times…..keep trying and keep learning.

 

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How to Make Zucchini Noodles With a Spiralizer

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How to make zoodles with this easy tutorial.

My zucchini plants have been generous this year, and I have loved it!  Zucchini is one of my favorite veggies because it’s the vegetable that just keeps on giving (and giving and giving and giving…..); plus it is so versatile!  We have been enjoying zucchini in bread, cookies, on the grill, fried, etc.  One of my very favorite ways to cook zucchini is to turn it into zoodles!  Zoodles is a great, healthier alternative to noodles (and if you pick the zucchini from your garden….it’s also FREE!).  I love to serve zucchini noodle with marinara or Alfredo sauce, but any of your fave pasta sauces will work great!  If cooked correctly, the zoodles are really not a lot different from regular noodles.  They are also much more filling, with much less calories!  Sometimes my kids don’t even realize what they are eating……emphasis on the sometimes.  I’m excited to teach you today how to make zucchini noodles with a spiralizer.

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Homemade Zoodles Tutorial

Zoodles might look fancy, but they are actually so easy to make; especially when you use a vegetable spiralizer.  Honestly my frugal self tried for years to make zucchini noodles without a spiralizer and I just couldn’t do it!  So, I bought this spiralizer and haven’t looked back since!

First things first, if your zucchini is long, you will want to cut it down into smaller chunks.  This will make it easier to move through the spiralizer.

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Next, you will need to prep your vegetable spiralizer.  I use the Thin Spiral for my zoodles.  Put your thin spiral attachment in the spiralizer and then stick one of the zuchinni chunks into the middle, in between the handle and the blade.  Easy peasy!

Now, all you need to do is twist!  This part is so simple (and…kindof fun….really!).  The zucchini will spiral through the blade, be sure to have a plate to catch all the spirals!  Kids love helping with and watching the noodles come out.

If you want to eat your zoodles raw (which you totally can!) they are ready.  I prefer cooking them over the stove for a few minutes (don’t worry it is quick!) to warm them up.

How to Cook Zoodles

Heat 1 or 2 tablespoons of oil in a sauce pan.  Once the oil is hot, add the zoodles.

Toss zoodles in the oil and sprinkle with some salt and pepper.  Continue stirring and cooking for 2-5 minutes.  I like them to be soft, but slightly firm.

And that’s it!  They are done.  Serve with your favorite pasta sauce.  ENJOY!!!

What’s your favorite thing to make with your garden zucchini???  I would love to hear it in the comments below!

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Even More Ways to Cut Your Budget

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Looking for more ways to cut your budget?  This is for you!

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about budget cuts.  I get a lot of comments and messages on Instagram; and a few of them just break my little heart!  These messages are from those that feel they have done every single thing they can think of to find extra money in their budget, but there is just nothing left to find.  These people have cut ALL unnecessary spending, only paying the bare minimum to live and they STILL can’t find any extra money in the budget.

If you can relate to this in any way; I want you to know that I hear you.  Financial stress is one of the scariest and hardest things to go through.  This article is for you.

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1.  Make a Budget

If you don’t already have a budget, make one!  This step seems obvious, but it is a step often skipped.  It’s easy to assume your spending is minimal enough that a budget won’t change anything (I know this, because I use to be one of those people!).

I’m here to tell you that your budget is EVERYTHING when it comes to overspending!  Even if you think your spending is already under control, I can guarantee you will spend less if you have a budget in place.

Don’t know how to make a budget?  Read my article, Zero Based Budgeting, and grab yourself my free budgeting cheat sheets below!  These two resources will give you everything you need for a successful budget.

 

 

2.  Check Your Budget ONE MORE TIME

I know that you have probably looked through that budget a bunch of times this week.  But, I want you to look one more time.

Try to look at your budget with a new eye.  I have found when I am desperate enough, we can usually find something else to cut from the budget.

Here are a few ideas to look for:

Monthly Subscriptions

Do you have any subscriptions you can cancel?

Often we are willing to cut out the cable, but leave Netflix. Now would be the time to consider cutting out the other TV subscriptions, such as Netflix, Hulu, etc.  Instead, rent movies from the library for free, or spend your time doing something other than watching television.

Other subscriptions to cancel are:  subscription boxes, magazines, etc.

Smart Phones

In today’s day and age it is hard to function without a smart phone, I get it!  However, I do know a lady who does is able to do it!  This sweet lady has a cheap flip phone, and a cheaper phone bill because of it!  Could you consider getting rid of that smart phone and the huge monthly data plan?

If canceling your phone plan completely doesn’t feel right, consider switching phone providers to a more affordable option.

We are currently using Tello mobile.  Our unlimited talk and text plan only costs us $5/month.  It’s the best thing ever!

Internet

If you truly feel that you MUST have a smart phone (no judgement, I totally feel that way!), consider getting rid of your internet service.  If you’re not streaming movies, and you have internet available on your phone; this can be a great solution to get an extra $50 a month.

My husband and I went without internet for about 9 months, and it was hard, but we got use to it.  The library was an absolute lifesaver during this time.  Once a week my laptop and I would take a trip to the library, plop down on a chair, and use their free WIFI to take care of all of my internet needs.

It wasn’t easy, but we made it work, and you can too!

Fuel

I get it.  You’ve got places to go and things to do; and unfortunately fuel is expensive.

I’m not going to suggest you stay home and never go anywhere (I mean, you’ve gotta earn a living and live a life, right?).

What I am going to suggest is to look at ways to consolidate your driving.  Consider shopping at a store closer to you, or buying online instead (use free shipping!).  Plan your errands for only once a week, and try to only drive to one area and get everything done in just that area.

I was talking to a friend a few years ago, who was very poor, and I mentioned to her about a free kids playground she could take her kids to (it was on the other side of town, about 15 minutes away).  She told me that fuel in her car is just to expensive, and so she tries to not drive that far away.

It was such a good example to me about watching every penny spent.  I have been much more mindful of unnecessary driving habits ever since.

Adjust the Temp

Turn your house thermostat down a few degrees in the winter, and up a few degrees in the summer.  Research shows that you can save at least 1% for each degree change.  We shoot for 68 degrees in the winter months and 78 degrees in the summer.  Honestly, we aren’t always perfect at this, but we try!

Another easy tip is to adjust the thermostat while you are sleeping, or if you will be gone for work all day.  If you don’t need that extra heat, there is no sense in paying for it!

Groceries

Groceries are one of the biggest expenses in most budgets; food is expensive!  But, it’s an area that can always be improved, if you are willing to put forth the work!

Here are a few ways I have been able to spend less on groceries:

Make a meal plan each week.

Making a thorough meal plan will save you money in two ways.  It decreases the temptation to eat out, and helps you plan meals based on what you already have at home (so you won’t impulse shop at the grocery store).

Cook from scratch.

Cooking meals from scratch, rather than buying prepacked meals, will save you HUGE in your grocery budget.  Consider making your own bread, snacks, etc.

If time is an issue, consider spending one day a week cooking a few meals to keep in the fridge or freezer to eat throughout the week.  Weekends are perfect for meal prep days.

Buy in bulk.

Watch for grocery sales offering you a huge discount when buying in bulk.  I love to buy my meat in bulk, and then freeze it in dinner sized portions.  This requires some time and effort, but can be a big money saver!

A few other cheap items to buy in bulk are:  snacks, cereal, canned goods, and paper supplies.

Use Cashback Apps

Cashback apps are one of my favorite ways to earn a few extra bucks.  Download as many as you can onto your phone and use each of them every single time you shop.  Here are a few of my favorite cash back apps.

3.  Pay with Cash

Do you use cash for purchases?  If you don’t, I highly suggest you start!  Paying with cash is one of the best secrets to spending less and saving more.

I prefer the cash envelope system to help me keep track of my cash and spending.  It’s simple really.  Instead of pulling out my credit card every time I shop, I use my cash from the envelope instead.

It truly helps me to see where my money is going….and once the envelope is empty, I can’t buy any more in that category for the month.

If you are feeling a little hesitant to use cash envelopes, consider trying them for one week.  If you can see a difference in that week, try it for another week.  Baby steps!

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4.  Negotiate Your Bills

Your bills are negotiable!  Many companies are willing to work out a lower price when asked and given good reason.  We have negotiated a few of our bills with success every single time.  I always remind myself, “It never hurts to ask.  The worst thing they could say is no, so why not try.”

Many of your bills are just non-negotiable (like your mortgage), but there are some companies worth calling and asking for a cheaper rate.  You will see the most success with your:

  • Cable TV Service
  • Cell Phone Provider
  • Medical Bills
  • Internet Provider
  • Insurance Premiums

Keep in mind these tips during the negotiation:

  • Know your competitors prices, and don’t be afraid to mention them during the phone call
  • If you’ve been a long time customer, mention it!
  • Be polite, but firm in your request.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask multiple times.  You’ll be on the phone with different people each time, chances are you’ll get someone who will listen to you eventually.
  • Threaten to leave as a customer; this is when they really begin to listen.

For more details about bill negotiation check out this article.

5.  Increase Your Income

After following the above steps and you still can’t find extra money in your budget, it might be time to consider increasing your income.

Here are a few tips to help you do this:

Ask for a Raise

Prepare a statement to bring to your boss.  Explain why you are an asset to the company.  Give concrete examples to show exactly how you have  helped the company to be successful and earn more money.

Change Jobs

I know it’s not easy to change jobs.  It’s hard to start back at square one, get out of your comfort zone, and learn a new job.  But, look at the big picture.  If a job change will bring you closer to your financial goals, than it is probably worth the switch.

Find a Side Hustle

A side hustle is a job you can work in addition to the job you already have.  You might do this job during the weekends or evenings.  Anyone and everyone can have a side hustle, and I know many people who have multiple side hustles!  I LOVE side hustling!

If you’re needing some side hustle ideas check out the article, 12 Legit Side Hustles for Stay at Home Moms, for a few ideas.  Many of these side hustles are for ANYONE, not just stay at home moms!

Sell Unused Clutter

Look around your house.  I bet there are a few items you haven’t touched in months (maybe even years….).  You can easily sell this unused clutter to earn extra money.

6.  Go to the Extreme

If you are looking for even more extreme ways to cut costs, consider downsizing your home and car.

If you have a current car payment, sell that vehicle and buy a cheaper one with cash.  I know this is not the cool thing to do, I know it’s much more convenient to have a newer car.  But, I also know that being debt free is important!

The older vehicle will only be temporary.  Once you have saved up enough cash, you can buy a newer one again.

And lastly, move somewhere more affordable.

I know this will be difficult, but I also think it just might be worth it!

You can reduce your rent or mortgage by moving somewhere smaller and more affordable.  Look at the bright side…smaller also means less to clean (I like less cleaning!).

In Conclusion

I believe whole heartedly that when there is a WILL, there is a WAY.  You can do this!  Find a support system to help you through.  I’m always an email away!

 

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How To Budget For Unexpected Expenses

By: Sweet Frugal Life1 Comment

How to handle unplanned expenses in the budget.

Wondering how to budget for unexpected expenses?  You’re not alone!

Every month my husband and I sit down for our monthly budget meeting.  Is it fun?  Nope.  Do I look forward to it?  Big no!  Do I do it anyways because I know it will save me money????  Absolutely!

The monthly budget meeting is the time for us to discuss the previous months budget.  We go over what worked, what didn’t work and we put together a new budget for the next month.

Our budget is a zero based budget, meaning every single penny that comes in during the month is budgeted to a certain category.  There is no excess.  This not only helps keep us on track, but it also means we have to stick to what was budgeted, no exceptions!

We try to brainstorm every expense that is likely to arise over the next month.  Sometimes, we forget something.  And other times expenses arise that we had no way to plan for or expect.

Take last month for example.

We had our budget meeting and thought we were entering the month prepared.  A couple of week later we found out that we were going to have to pay $120 for my daughter to participate in track.

We had already agreed that she would be allowed to do track this year, we just didn’t realize how soon that fee would be due.

So, we went back to our budget and made it work.  We were able to cut a few other expenses down in a different category so that we could come up with the $120.  We have done this enough times that it’s become very easy and low stress.

If you are new to budgeting though, it might feel a little daunting when these unexpected expenses come.  I’m here to give you some pointers and help along the way.

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Plan Ahead for the Unexpected

It’s not a secret that unexpected expenses happen.  So, it’s our job to prepare ourselves.  Here are two ways you can plan for the unexpected.

Emergency Fund

An Emergency Fund is so important to have at all times.  I can not stress this fact enough, if I could scream it from the rooftops…I would.  Whether we like it or not, emergencies happen!

My daughters track payment was NOT an emergency.  Make sure you only use this fund for true emergencies.  There are other ways to deal with unexpected expenses than dipping into this important account.

Honestly, I use to be someone that thought we were immune to emergencies, those types of things only happened to “other people”……and then one day my husband unexpectedly lost his job.

It was awful.  But.  The one thing that kept us going and kept me calm was the fact that we had an emergency fund in place.  Having that emergency fund in place was one of the only things that kept me going.  I had the peace that we would be OK.

I know that contributing to an emergency fund can be difficult…..especially when you have dozens of bills to pay, retirement to save for, mouths to feed, debt to pay off, and a life to live….I get it!

A few tips to help…..

  • Start small:  Try saving just 2% of each paycheck.  As it gets easier to do, slowly increase that percentage.
  • Set up a direct deposit:  Look into your bank to set up a direct deposit into a savings account (for emergencies only).  This account should be separate from your checking account so it’s harder to use.  When you set up a direct deposit the money is automatically deposited into your emergency savings account from your paycheck (or checking account, depending how it’s set up).  This way you don’t even have the choice to use that money for anything else.  If you never even see it, than you won’t even miss it!

Miscellaneous Category

Another important tip for learning how to budget for unexpected expenses is to include a Miscellaneous Category in your monthly budget.  This category is meant for the unplanned expenses that come during the month.

We put $150 into miscellaneous each month.  This money is used for all of the situations that arise, but weren’t planned for.

When my daughter came to us with the information that it was time to pay for track, we knew we could cover it with our miscellaneous budget.  However, we also knew that we would need to watch our spending in the other areas to make sure that no other “miscellaneous” items arose.

 

 

Fixing Unexpected Expenses

Here are a few ways to make the budget work if you don’t have (or don’t want to use) money from your miscellaneous category or emergency fund.

Pause Spending

If you find yourself overspending in a few of your categories, put a pause on all unnecessary spending for the rest of the month.

This may include stopping things like going out to eat, going to movies or buying clothes.  You might also want to limit your groceries, here are a few ways you can spend less on groceries.

This is not an easy adjustment, but remember it is only temporary.

Make Extra Money

If you need some quick cash, look into some ways to earn extra money.

Consider starting one of these side hustles that can be done from home.

Another way to get some extra money is to sell some items around your house.  This is actually my FAVE way to fix the budget.  All it takes is 5 minutes of taking pictures and writing a brief description of whatever you need to sell, and bam!  You’ve made money!

Here are 5 Websites you Can Sell Your Stuff for Quick Cash.  I prefer Facebook Marketplace, but I’ve used them all!

Take a look around your house to find a few items you haven’t touched for a few years (a basement storage room is usually the first place I look), and list that clutter for sale!  If you need some ideas, I’ve got you covered, just check out my article:  10 Items In Your House You Can Sell Quickly To Make Money

Keep Stepping Forward

The most important thing is that you don’t discouraged when these unexpected expenses arise.

There are always be bumps in the road, but you can overcome every single one of those bumps.  I promise!

No budget is perfect.  Mine certainly isn’t!  But.  I keep trying every month to improve little by little.  Learn from each mistake and keep your head up!

 

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How To Teach Kids About Money

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Teaching kids about finances.

Teaching my kids how to be smart with money has always been very important to me as a parent.   I believe if they can learn how to handle money when they are young, then they will be much more successful as adults.  Honestly, I would rather them make money mistakes with $5 than make the mistakes with $5,000 (ya know?!?!).  But, it can be hard to know exactly just how to teach kids about money.

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Here are a few things that have helped me to teach my kids about money:

  • Money Confident Kids Website.  This website is full of FREE resources, games, printables and activities to help kids understand finances.  I have found so many helpful information here.
  • Object Lessons.  A few years ago we did this fun object lesson with our kids.  It was a huge success and I loved watching the wheels turning in my kids head as we counted out the money, it’s something I hope to try again one day!

 

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  • Smart Money Smart Kids: Raising the Next Generation to Win with Money by Rachel Cruze and Dave Ramsey.  This book is one of my favorite books I have ever read.  It outlines exactly what to do to give your kids the knowledge they need about money.  I highly recommend it to ALL parents.
  • At Home Money System:  The most successful thing I have done to help my kids learn about money is through our simple money system.  Having an at home money system gives kids a hands on approach to budgeting, saving and spending.  I am sharing all of the nitty gritty details with you about this below!

Allowance

Yes.  My kids get an allowance.  No, they are not spoiled.

I know, I know!  Allowance kindof has a bad rap, and a lot of people don’t understand why we use one.

I get it!  Many people think allowance is a handout, and do not want their kids to grow up  spoiled or entitled.

So why then would I give my kids an allowance???  Well, I will tell you!

I believe that there is a right way and a wrong way to use an allowance.  If done correctly an allowance can be a wonderful TOOL in helping kids learn how to spend wisely.

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Here’s the thing…..I received an allowance as a child….but, I was expected to buy my own clothes, make-up, shoes, extra curricular activities, outings with friends, etc.

Honestly, I grew up to be very responsible with money, I did not become spoiled, entitled or lazy, I did not expect a free handout once I became an adult, and I believe a big part of this is because I was given an allowance and learned how to manage my money at a young age.

I learned early in life how to budget and save and spend wisely.  Instead of asking my parents to buy me a brand new pair of name brand shoes and being disappointed when they told me it was to much money; I was given a set amount of money and I learned to decide for MYSELF that the name brand shoes were to much money and I would rather shop around for a better deal.  I am so grateful to my parents for helping me to learn this lesson.

Using an Allowance as a Tool

So, how do we use allowance as a tool?  I will share with you what has worked for us, and hopefully it will work for you too!

Once our kids turn eight years old they start receiving a small allowance of $5 a month.  This is what I call the “practice allowance.”  The $5 is meant to help them get into the habit of saving and tithing.

We teach our kids to save 20% and tithe 10% to our church.  The rest of their allowance money can be used for spending.

This spending money is usually spent on buying small treats or toys, birthday presents for friends and family or to save up for something a little larger.  (my son is currently saving for a lego set!).

At age 13 the kids graduate from “practice allowance” to a bigger allowance.  They now begin to receive $25/month and are responsible for buying more of their own clothes and activities.

Once they turn 15 the amount will increase again, along with more responsibilities.  My goal is to slowly teach them how to manage their own money and provide for themselves.

The way I see it, I could either pay for their clothes myself and my kids will learn that mom buys clothes.  OR, I could give them an allowance, they can buy their own clothes, and they learn how to manage money and to decide between needs and wants.  Either way the money still comes out of my pocket.

I have been so proud watching my kids manage their allowance.  They save WELL more than the expected 20%, and have been so responsible with their money.

My oldest has learned to shop at discounted clothing stores; such as Ross, TJ Maxx, Uptown Cheapskate, etc.  Instead of complaining to ME when something costs to much, she gets to make that decision for herself.  I honestly wouldn’t parent any other way.

How Does It Work?

Visual learning works great for kids!  So, I have bought my kids these savings tins to help them practice saving, spending and tithing.

I couldn’t find the exact savings banks that we bought for our kids, but I did find a similar version on Amazon here!

These tins help to make saving money a little more fun for the kids.  My kids love that they have their own key to lock up their very own personal bank.

You do NOT need to spend money on savings banks though.  Feel free to set your kids up with three envelopes or three jars, anything that will store money will work!

The very first things our kids do after receiving their allowance is go get their savings bank and tithe 10% to our church, save at LEAST 20% for their future, such as college and a car.

I pay them using change to make it easier to tithe and save.  If it’s time for their monthly $5 allowance then I will give them 4 one dollar bills and 4 quarters.  They know that two quarters go into their tithing bank, one dollar in their savings and the rest into spending.

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Lessons Learned

The lessons I have seen my kids learn since implementing these methods have been HUGE and absolutely PRICELESS.  A few of the things I have watched them learn are:

1. Their future is important to them

Kids care about their future.  If we give them the opportunity to care, they will!

I have been so impressed with my kids as I’ve watched them save MUCH more than the required 20%.  They understand that they will be responsible for a lot of their future expenses and are very motivated to save for those moments.

We talk often about their future and the expenses coming.  They understand that they will need to buy a car, help pay for college and provide for themselves as adults.  Because of this conversation, they work hard to save and plan ahead.

2.  Some things are just not worth spending money on

Each of the kids have had moments in the store when they have fell in love with a toy.  I always remind them that they have their own money to spend and if they want to buy it they can.

Once I give them the choice to buy it themselves with their own money, they pause to really think about this decision.  Some times, they use their money and buy what they want.  Other times, they decide it is not worth spending money on.

I love watching them make these choices.  They learn so much more by making the decision themselves, rather than me saying it’s not worth the money.

3.  The harder they work the more money they will have

You might be wondering about this section…..yes.  My kids are paid an allowance (not connected to chores).  They also know that money comes from working hard.

How does this work?  I will explain it to you!

My kids do not get paid for the majority of their household chores.  I believe that helping keep the house clean is just part of being in a family and should not receive payment.

However, I do pay the kids for what we call “extra chores.”  These extra chores are chores above the basic house cleaning.  My oldest gets paid for mowing the lawn and my youngest gets paid for feeding the dog.

Whenever they want to earn extra money, they can ask me for an extra chore, and I will give them one.

4.  It feels good to give.

Our kids are taught that paying a tithe to our church is a way to help and bless others who might not have much money.  We also believe that our Heavenly Father blessed us with our wealth, and will bless us by giving back to Him and His church.

Instilling this into our kids have been a huge blessing.  I love watching them give to others and to our church.

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In Conclusion

These are the things that have worked well in my family.  I have loved watching my kids make mistakes with money and then learn from those mistakes.  It’s not always easy to see them fail….but the lessons they learn afterwards are worth it!

What works for one family won’t work for all families.  Try a few of these ideas out, find what works for your family.  Your kids will thank you when they are older, I promise!

 

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